tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4913528995711408109.post5447119826625999516..comments2023-06-27T12:22:09.413+01:00Comments on Learning to be selfish: HospitalVhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01785781682613066190noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4913528995711408109.post-20906741701480376732010-06-30T21:50:08.355+01:002010-06-30T21:50:08.355+01:00As long aswe take responsibility for ourselves and...As long aswe take responsibility for ourselves and our own actions, the rest, I think is all a bonus!Vhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01785781682613066190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4913528995711408109.post-9563962168663361442010-06-29T21:56:10.519+01:002010-06-29T21:56:10.519+01:00i struggle with wanting people to take responsibil...i struggle with wanting people to take responsibility a lot... it all stems, of course, from my history with my mother but it's so hard to feel entitled to that admission and apology from someone... it rarely comes in a useful or sincere way... i haven't learned how to not want that yet...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4913528995711408109.post-19618459537521587462010-06-24T20:56:42.920+01:002010-06-24T20:56:42.920+01:00Thanks Stacia. I'm sure it will get better. It...Thanks Stacia. I'm sure it will get better. It's tough thing to love someone and be driven nuts by them at the same time.....Hope all ok your side of the pond xVhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01785781682613066190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4913528995711408109.post-29654571003924573392010-06-24T13:30:23.619+01:002010-06-24T13:30:23.619+01:00"I cannot give her what she wants. I can do t..."I cannot give her what she wants. I can do the practical stuff, but I struggle to feel anything other than angry towards her."<br /><br />Though in our world of opposites mine is with my father, I totally relate and though I'm very sorry to hear you're going through this, its a bit of a relief in a way to know I'm not the only one. I tell myself guilt is a useless emotion, but its still a problem sometimes. And the anger doesn't feel much better. Very draining.<br /><br />Hug.Stacianoreply@blogger.com