tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4913528995711408109.post666992420273805331..comments2023-06-27T12:22:09.413+01:00Comments on Learning to be selfish: GuiltyVhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01785781682613066190noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4913528995711408109.post-89579698964978322772010-06-30T21:52:23.294+01:002010-06-30T21:52:23.294+01:00Thank you Heather. Kinds words always appreciated,...Thank you Heather. Kinds words always appreciated,<br /><br />VxVhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01785781682613066190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4913528995711408109.post-2061991931764674862010-06-29T21:54:02.239+01:002010-06-29T21:54:02.239+01:00in my experience, periods of no-contact after thes...in my experience, periods of no-contact after these really sore visits are the only way that i can sort of get right with things. it's hard but i've eventually learned to go back and see her and not let the hurtful things in too deeply... it takes practice though and my mother surely isn't the same situation as yours but it sounds awfully close (at times)... again, good luck coping. keep breathing and keep reminding yourself that mother or not, the bottom line is you must protect yourself and your life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com